Future Health Frontiers Q&A Women’s Health

How does a newlywed girl have a good first night?

Asked by:Windy

Asked on:Mar 28, 2026 11:57 AM

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  • Sunflower Sunflower

    Mar 28, 2026

      Of course it is good to be satisfied with your first and first few sex life after marriage. But there are also those who are not very satisfied with their life, because newlyweds often lack knowledge about sex, and they are new to each other and are prone to nervousness, shyness and fear. It is normal for them to have a poor sex life. However, it’s best to enjoy your wedding night. Specifically, we should pay attention to the following points:

      1. Pay attention to external genital hygiene

      On your wedding night, you and your husband should wash your vulva with warm water and mild soap. Newlyweds are busy and tired due to wedding shopping and entertaining relatives and friends. Men's smegma and women's vaginal secretions increase. If not cleaned, it is very unhygienic and will affect the sexual desire and sexual desire of both men and women. healthy

      2. Take good contraceptive measures

      If both men and women do not want to have a child immediately and do not take birth control pills, both couples will have concerns, and the woman will be more afraid of getting pregnant, so she will not be able to concentrate highly and her sex life will be affected. If the woman takes birth control pills in time, or the man wears a condom, both parties will have no worries, concentrate, and achieve satisfactory results in their sexual life.

      3. Cooperate closely and be considerate to each other

      When starting sexual life, both parties will feel shy, especially the woman, who has a complicated psychological state and is a little nervous. You need to ask your husband to move gently, and if it doesn't work once, you can try a few more times. The woman should also take the initiative to cooperate, overcome tension and fear, take the initiative to relax mentally, and be sexually aroused quickly. The vaginal secretions are abundant and have good lubrication effect, which can reduce the pain during sexual intercourse and relieve the pain caused by the abrasion of the hymen.

      4. Prevent inflammation of damaged hymen

      After the hymen ruptures, there will be some slight pain and a small amount of bleeding. You should wipe it with sterilized gauze or cotton wool. It is best to wait 2-3 days before having sex to prevent wound inflammation. If your hymen is ruptured, bleeding a lot, and the pain is unbearable, you should seek medical attention.

      5. Treat prematurely correctly ejaculation

      During sexual intercourse for the first time, the man may ejaculate prematurely due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement, resulting in sexual intercourse failure. For this situation you should be forgiven, this is not Premature ejaculation , with the growth of sexual knowledge and accumulation of sexual experience after marriage, both parties will cooperate tacitly and will return to normal quickly.

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