Do all Chinese men want to marry nurses?

　　I remember that foreign psychologists once conducted a survey and found that a person's occupation can have a subtle impact on his or her personality: for example, salesmen are generally sharp-tongued, steel workers mostly have iron will, and those who work as secretaries are meticulous, while those who have long been responsible for midwives and nursing work female She is as gentle as water, considerate and very feminine, and midwives and nurses once became popular male Welcome to the mate-choosing crowd.

　　I have a female classmate. Her parents divorced when she was young, which gave her a strong character. This character was so strong that she not only became the head of a key department in a large company, but also lived in a big house alone during the final stage of her pregnancy and childbirth, without her husband accompanying her or her family to take care of her. Hospital。

　　At that time, her husband was flying around in the air all day because he was busy with business, and his parents and family were far away from home. Maybe she had always been too strong and capable, so everyone in her family was accustomed to her "taking care of everything". Unexpectedly, after living alone, her mood suddenly became restless. She told me afterwards that this uneasiness included both the joy of becoming a mother and the fear of giving birth, as well as an inexplicable feeling of loneliness.

　　Fortunately, several young midwives and nurses in the obstetrics and gynecology department accompanied her through those painful years. Their gentleness and considerateness, their thoughtfulness, and their charming smiles made her feel like a spring breeze. On the operating table, they are good helpers for doctors, and in the ward, they become caring people for mothers. I remember what this female classmate said at the end: "My husband always thought that I had a strong personality and a quick temper. I was always competitive with others at work, and I would never give in to him when I got home. This time I gave birth to a baby and was hospitalized. I saw the nurses who always had kind smiles on their faces no matter how busy they were. Their gentleness, intelligence, and calmness touched me greatly. I suddenly felt that these are real women.