Investigation on the phenomenon of "masturbation" among girls

　　In fact, masturbation itself is an expression of loving yourself, and there is no need to feel pressured or uneasy. But there are also inevitable problems when masturbating. By summarizing, MM with the following thoughts are prone to masturbation. Let us treat it correctly and pay attention to it.

　　“"celibacy"

　　current boy They are all so bad, and sometimes it feels like they are only with you to do that kind of thing. If a boy really has feelings for you, he won't be anxious about that kind of thing. Moreover, many sisters told me that when they are "sweet" with their boyfriends, it is not as magical as what is written in the book. So I decided not to tie myself to my partner for the time being. Instead of relying on other people's help, I would rather enjoy "sexual" happiness by myself.

　　“"Curiosity"ism

　　I just got a boyfriend and the two of them are almost inseparable. I had no experience at all before, so I didn’t know how to deal with it. I was always afraid that one day when the two of us were so horny, I would be at a loss what to do, and he would laugh at me. So I read various magazines and newspapers and checked major websites, trying to understand the mysteries and mysteries. It is said that masturbation is a way to understand and experience sexual desire. It can help you understand your own body, help you capture your excitement points, and achieve orgasm.

　　“Perfectionism

　　I have a boyfriend who I have been with for two years. He is very nice to me in every aspect. I just feel that there is one thing that is unsatisfactory, that is, he cannot satisfy me in the "couple" life. I told him this idea. Although he was a little frustrated, he still encouraged me to work hard with him, so I tried to make myself comfortable while he was enjoying it. Slowly, I came to grips with my physical condition at that time and knew how to make myself as happy and satisfied as he was. In this way, I feel closer and more harmonious with him.

　　We also conducted a survey on the following four students to see when, where, and under what circumstances masturbation occurs.

　　Why?

　　Feier (sophomore)

　　“Initially, it was because I was riding a bicycle, maybe because I was not focused enough at that time, and the stimulation of the friction between the lower body and the saddle produced pleasure. Later, I also had a similar feeling when wearing tight jeans. After learning about this method, I couldn't control it. ”

　　Xiaoxiao (freshman)

　　“When I first entered college, I was under a lot of mental pressure and my sleep was also affected. Reaching the climax through DIY will release the mental pressure, followed by physical fatigue. nerve It will also relax and fall asleep quickly, so masturbation has become a way of hypnosis for me. ”

　　Betty (sophomore)

　　“Because I don’t have a boyfriend, I am relatively depressed mentally and physically. Occasionally I see some images or words about sex on the Internet and in books, which stimulate my eyeballs and brain, and I can only solve the physical problems through masturbation. ”

　　Xiao Shuang (junior year)

　　“In fact, I have a boyfriend who loves me very much, but I still feel that DIY is more comfortable than having sex with my boyfriend. When you can't see your boyfriend for a long time and miss him very much, you will still choose to solve it on your own. ”

　　The above are the reasons why the four girls choose DIY, which also represents the reasons for most girls who masturbate.

　　Where do you usually masturbate?

　　Feier

　　Library: There are fewer people there, so you won’t be easily spotted sitting in the corner.

　　Xiaoxiao

　　Dormitory: Especially when you are alone in the dormitory or late at night when your roommates are asleep.

　　Computer room: Every time I sit in front of the computer and browse the Internet, I will consciously or unconsciously see some sexual topics and content. The computer room is considered a hot spot for incidents.

　　At home: My parents are often away from home due to work reasons. When I get home, I like to lie in bed, read and watch TV, and DIY when I am alone.

　　Xiaoshuang

　　Dormitory: My boyfriend has already gone to work, so we don’t have much time to see each other. It’s easy to miss him when you’re alone at night, so mistakes are inevitable.

　　Concentrate the places where everyone's accident happened, mainly in places where there are few people or where one person is alone. Try to avoid thinking randomly when you are alone, communicate more with others or close your eyes quickly. sleep That's the key.