9 things women need to know about flirting

　　1. Help the other party

　　If she mentions that her car is parked 8 blocks away and she's leaving late that night, you can offer to walk with her to pick up the car. If he's carrying several large and small bags, you can offer to get him a grocery bag, and if she mentions that she's going to paint her room, you can suggest a store where she can buy cheap paint (or offer to bring a brush to help). You want to show that you are willing to help the other person and make his or her life easier, and in this way deepen the relationship and improve understanding.

　　2. Ask some targeted questions

　　Don't talk superficially, dig deep, or inquire into other people's privacy. Questions like “Where did you grow up? ”or “Do you like watching horror movies? ”Questions such as these are light-hearted and appropriate, and they show that you are willing to get to know the other person. Please don’t ask heavy questions with “too big a topic”, such as “What is your goal in life?” ”.

　　Be cheerful and easy-going. You can mention that you saw him at that boring party. You can bring up a topic she talked about last week. You can tell her that you like his new haircut. You can tell her how fascinated you were when you first heard her laugh.

　　3. Advanced flirting

　　If you are not satisfied with "long-term" flirting and want to have a more permanent communication, you can consider the following flirting techniques:

　　The role of praise: The object of compliment should be directly the other person, rather than just praising a certain object. If you say, “I like your tie. ”It will make the man feel confused, not knowing whether you like the tie or him as a person, so you should say something like this: "You look very chic in that tie, it makes your Eye Seems extremely clear. ”