Don’t “sexually torture” men”

　　We have to admit that there are differences between men and women when enjoying sex. Men pursue excitement while women may pay more attention to warmth. But no matter what, men and women should get enjoyment and fun from sex in bed, rather than mutual indifference and torture.

　　There is such a joke, there is a couple who are having sex, the wife passively accepts it, and calmly asks the husband: "How much bonus did you get this month? ”When they were done talking, the wife hurriedly got out of bed, naked, and said to her husband in panic: "I forgot to seal the furnace door, the water must have dried up. ”You think, how interesting is such a sex life?

　　It is certainly a noble spirit of dedication for women to "fulfill their obligations" during sex. In fact, in front of this special "volunteer", any man will feel that the joy of sex life has disappeared without a trace, and he will feel an indescribable torture.

　　There was once a wife who was reluctant to fulfill her obligations because she could not get the enjoyment and pleasure from sex. Therefore, when the man accidentally leaked a few drops of semen on the sheets, she jumped up, pulled off the sheets, and said: "You are so annoying!" Could you please be careful? It smells so bad when it's so dirty! ”At this time, the man suddenly fell from the peak of happiness to the abyss of shame, and his self-esteem was greatly hurt.

　　After experiencing such a blow, men can't help but have an idea: It's okay not to do this kind of volunteer work.

　　Sex is the most intimate emotional and physical communication between lovers. It is a simultaneous dialogue between the spirit and the body. The indifferent and indifferent attitude during sex is unacceptable. Men will think that your silence is a kind of protest, dissatisfaction or carelessness, which will not only discourage men, but also cause great torture to men; the kind of sex full of resentment and dissatisfaction is also the greatest harm to both parties. How can you talk about the pleasure and satisfaction of sex?

　　Women's sexual frigidity is indeed largely due to the fact that men only want to enjoy themselves, which in turn brings about this evil consequence. However, women sexually torture men with the mentality of "instead of just making men happy, why don't everyone feel happy". This will only hinder the construction of a harmonious sex life and lead to an even colder situation.

　　Therefore, in the final analysis, I still want to advise the men and women in the besieged city to live together, and remember this sentence: It is really fun when everyone is happy!