6 kinds of burden mentality that you should not have during sex

　　1. Don’t be overly seeking novelty and difference in sex.

　　The sexual life of couples has become more lively in today's open world. Many people have seen "Category III movies" or books describing the details of sexual life. They will inevitably want to try it, which may make their sexual life more interesting and happy. However, we need to pay attention to the differences in sexual concepts between husband and wife. If it is difficult for the partner to accept this, then they should try to keep it as consistent as possible, or adopt a gradual and excessive approach to slowly change. Otherwise, it will definitely make the partner think, doubt and even unhappy, and "good intentions will lead to bad things."

　　2. Don’t force your partner to have sex.

　　male female There are certain differences in ability, and individual sexual ability will also decline with age. This is a natural law. Of course, sexual desire is also affected by work, emotions, healthy There are always differences in sexual desire between men and women, so partners cannot be required to be consistent, otherwise the intercourse may become mechanical and the "sexual interest" will be lost over time.

　　3. Don’t have sex too regularly and rigidly.

　　Sex life is too regular and becomes a "system" with regular, quantitative, fixed points, etc., too rigid time or way of making love, which will make the sex life lifeless and less exciting. It may even make the partner feel bored and feel that sex is a kind of coping between husband and wife, and it is easy for the partner to feel nervous and depressed about sex.

　　4. Don’t joke about sex often.

　　There will always be sexual signals during sexual intercourse between husband and wife, and the other party should respond positively. Joking about sex can also add fun, but it must be moderate. If inappropriate signals are often given out during sex, it will be like "crying wolf."

　　5. It is not necessary to take a bath after having sex.

　　The hygiene of reproductive organs is very important. Both husband and wife should clean their external genitals before sex. For example, if you have sex just after taking a bath, simply clean it. However, you have your own opinions on sex. Always rushing into the bathroom or asking your partner to wash it off immediately may cause a lot of unhappiness. The lack of "post-sex play" will also affect the quality of sex.

　　6. The woman will not have an orgasm every time.

　　In recent years, there have been many articles introducing female orgasm, which makes both men and women want women to have orgasms frequently, or pursue the so-called orgasm effect one-sidedly, which is unrealistic. Experts point out that female orgasm is affected by many factors, so psychological pleasure is the most important thing for couples to have sex.