How to train a good husband

　　Some people say that a woman's infatuation lasts a lifetime, while a man's infatuation is often just for a while. Not really. Men are like children who need women's love and guidance; a good woman is like a school that can produce the best graduates. Moreover, we must remember: In this school, wives train good husbands by producing and selling themselves, and no man can educate himself. Whether a woman can be pampered by her husband for a lifetime, the initiative lies entirely with herself.……

　　Weiwei talks about her worries after getting married:

　　When I got home on the weekend, I originally planned to act coquettishly in my husband's arms to comfort myself from the loneliness of the week. But God knows why, just because he didn't come to pick me up, just because the sound of the disc he rented was not good, I got furious. My mood was extremely bad. My friend invited us to have dinner together, but we were not in the mood to go.

　　As for him, he didn't comfort me like he used to. He just sat in front of the TV and watched TV by himself. He no longer paid attention to my sadness, and he refused to hug me. Maybe this just added fuel to the fire for me, so I thought step by step that he didn't love me, and he never even loved me. Desperation made me lose my mind and I thought about divorce.

　　I said loudly that we would get divorced on Monday.

　　He actually agreed.

　　I feel even more shameless. I followed him when he had nothing, so what right did he have to agree to a divorce!

　　I feel wronged and hopeless. Seriously psychologically unbalanced, I finally couldn't bear it anymore. My heart could no longer control my hands, and tragedy just happened. We became entangled, and the bottom line agreed upon before the marriage was gone. Divorce has become the only ending, a cliff with no way out.

　　The sad thing is that I don't regret it at all, I just want to get divorced as soon as possible. I think he does too. Although he has no money, no fame, no power, he probably has false self-esteem and hatred for me at the moment.

　　I also only have hatred for him. However, I can't get a divorce because we have only been married for two months and I can't afford the shame! Things seem to be beyond our control.

　　I had to think back to our beginnings. Because of my loneliness and because I am older, we became friends. My family’s opposition only made me more resistant. I thought he loved me and we got together. Women are so rigid, so we got married.

　　Who knows, maybe it was a tragedy from the beginning. But I still have to pretend to be happy in front of others. I thought, even if it was dichlorvos, I would have to drink it.

　　A lot of the time I'm at a loss.

　　He said he didn’t know why I had such a strong sense of superiority. It’s not that I have a superiority complex, I just hate his parents. I received neither love nor money from them. Why can't I be angry? However, I can't be angry. As long as there is any dissatisfaction or complaint about his parents in my words, he will be endlessly angry with me.

　　I really don’t understand, is this considered a man’s ability?

　　That's how complicated things are.

　　It's actually that simple.

　　Just because of love, just because of money.

　　I don't know what to do.

　　My girlfriend comforted me, and listening to them talk about what happiness is and how their husbands treat me well, I felt sad in my heart. No matter where their husbands go, if they know what she likes to eat, they will definitely buy it for her; no matter how late it is, as long as she is hungry, they will definitely buy what she likes to eat; even if they only have a salary of a few dozen yuan, they will be willing to buy her dozens of yuan of clothes; they say that no woman will admit her fault first in a quarrel, and men will try their best to make them happy.

　　As for me, I want to eat Xinjiang Grape , but because it costs 15 yuan a pound, he is always reluctant to part with it, and he can’t think of buying it for me; when I am hungry, he will say that he is still hungry; for the sake of the family, I try to save as much as possible, and he seems to be more reasonable, and he is not willing to buy me things no matter how much I like; we quarreled, but he never gave up, and even if I showed weakness to him, he still dismissed it……

　　Is such a man worth lingering on? But I didn't have the courage to give up. I deserve it, right? Husband, my temper is bad, but is this the reason why you don’t love me? If you really don't love me, how can you be so fussy about geologists and yet say you love me so confidently? I don’t know anymore. I hope God can change you or me.

　　This was obviously written by an angry girl who was not rational. She doesn't know what she wants or where her interests lie. Just because no one told me, just because I wanted to vent.