What are the types of sub-health?

　　The surplus type of "emotional sub- healthy”

　　I gave you too much emotion.

　　Manifestation: In family life, parents, grandparents, and grandparents mostly give their children too much affection, which often manifests as doting. Excessive care and love make children overly dependent and lack self-confidence.

　　In married life, one party loves the other so passionately that they want to take care of everything the other party does and want to take care of everything the other party does. Only allow the other party to accept your love, and do not allow the other party to say "no". This kind of passionate love is actually a kind of "overbearing love". Because the love is too hot and overbearing, the other person is drowned in the "ocean of love", and in the end it even burns the love to death.

　　Countermeasures: The surplus type of "emotional sub-health" is actually a kind of "emotional obesity". In order for emotions to develop healthily, it is necessary to "lose weight" and return it to normal and healthy state. As a giver of emotions, don’t be sentimental and “spread your love to the world” at will.” ； From the perspective of the recipient of emotions, you should not accept all emotions, but should learn to reject them.

　　Deficiency type "emotional sub-health"”

　　There is not enough emotion to be given

　　Performance: In family life, younger generations generally show less affection to their elders. Many younger generations only know how to ask for things from their family members and do not know how to think about their family members' feelings.

　　In married life, some people are passionate when they are in love, but they cool down after getting married. They no longer create love, no longer know how to see problems from the other person's perspective, and no longer pay attention to the other person's feelings.

　　Countermeasures: Deficient "emotional sub-health" is like "emotional sub-health" anemia syndrome", "emotional atrophy", "emotional malnutrition". To solve the deficiency-type "emotional sub-health" problem, it is necessary to "transfuse" emotions and increase "nutrition" to make emotions full. At the same time, we need to carry out emotions exercise , improve emotional quality and bring emotions to the healthy normal they should be.

　　Advanced "emotional sub-health"”

　　It’s too early to give the emotion that should be given

　　Performance: It is natural for men to get married when they are older, and for women to get married when they are older. However, it is normal and reasonable to talk about marriage only when men and women reach a certain age and meet certain conditions. Nowadays, some teenagers fall in love prematurely before their physical and mental maturity. Some even have sexual intercourse, or even have unintended pregnancies among minors. These are all unhealthy emotional behaviors.

　　Countermeasures: Advanced "emotional sub-health" is like an immature "jujube". The best way to make this "sour date" truly delicious and attractive and turn it into a "sweet date" is not to rush and wait patiently for some time.