Why is the vagina not moist even though I have a strong sexual desire?

　　Since getting married, when having sex with her husband vaginal dryness , there was no discharge at all. I felt that my sexual desire was quite strong, and I tried my best during intercourse, but the situation did not improve. My husband said I was frigid and I was speechless. Is vaginal discharge really the standard for sexual desire?

　　Depending on the circumstances of your letter, you may be one of female Sexual arousal disorder (also known as anorgasmia) mainly refers to slow generation of sexual excitement and delayed onset of impulse. That clinical The symptoms are: ① Until the sexual activity is completed, the patient is still partially or completely unable to produce the vaginal lubrication and expansion response that should be required for sexual excitement.； ②Lack of subjective feeling of sexual excitement during sexual activity.

　　In the past, women were often classified as low sexual desire, sexual arousal disorder, sexual aversion, etc. sexual dysfunction It is now considered inappropriate to generally call it frigidity. Although their causes and pathogenesis are related to a certain extent, they need to be distinguished. For example, low sexual desire refers to the lack of subjective desire for sexual activities, which is manifested as no need for sexual life and no sexual desire. Sexual aversion is a persistent repulsive or aversive reaction to sexual contact or sexual needs with a partner, characterized by intense and unreasonable extreme fear or avoidance of sex. People with sexual arousal disorder can have normal sexual desire and a subjective desire to enhance sexual harmony. ； In addition to lack of sexual knowledge, patients may also have sexual psychological disorders, reproductive tract inflammation, abnormal secretion of sex hormones and other factors, some of which are systemic. disease and the effects of drugs. It is recommended that you do a check-up first to rule out organic sexually transmitted diseases If the change is indeed a psychological problem, behavioral therapy such as "sexy concentration training" can be used to treat it.