8 misunderstandings women have about sex

　　Misunderstanding 1: Only hard work in bed can make sex perfect.

　　Perhaps this is the most common mistake we make. In fact, if you deliberately manage your sex life, you will not be able to make your body and mind truly harmonious.

　　is blending in. For example, Lan Xin always wants to show her best image to her lover, including trying to keep her hair neat and tidy in bed, with rosy lips and fragrant cheeks, which makes her husband only want to watch from a distance, and loses all "sexuality". Of course, from another perspective, if you are busy thinking about how to move your body, how to touch the other person, and how to observe the other person's feelings, then you will definitely not be happy yourself. Experts believe that the best sex is when the body and mind are free from distractions and fully integrated into it.

　　Misunderstanding 2: Prolonging foreplay or afterplay will greatly reduce the fun of sex.

　　Many people believe that sex should always be impromptu. In fact, in the busy and tense life and work, it is difficult for us to have the leisure and leisure to wait for the natural passion, so waiting blindly can only make the good time we should have pass away quietly. While many experts don't advocate prescribing sex, they do advocate setting aside time for good sex. Just think about how long it takes you to prepare a dish? Although the sex that makes you feel satisfied does not depend on the length of time, but the fun in the process, if the time is too short and there is no time to share each other's feelings, then sex is just a mechanical action. Foreplay is especially important for increasing sexual interest. You can take a bath with your husband. When you apply bubbles all over his body, he will definitely feel a strange feeling. Beautiful Ming said that every time she takes a bath, she asks her husband to help her flush the water. At that time, Ming always felt a kind of joy and excitement slowly rising in his heart.

　　Misunderstanding 3: Women who are too independent will make men sexually impotent.

　　Lan Xin is not only charming and charming, but also a successful white-collar woman. When Lan Xin's career is booming, something goes wrong in their originally loving couple life. After several failed attempts in bed, her husband became extremely frustrated. One night, he actually asked Lan Xin to sleep in separate beds. Lan Xin was shocked and wondered whether her husband was impotent because she was too strong.

　　But that's not the case. A man's "failure" may be caused by a variety of factors. A woman's independence is a charm to men. From a man's point of view, the most seductive female She is a woman who is enthusiastic and positive about sex. The kind of woman who doesn't put any thought into sex and just passively performs obligatory sexual intercourse will make her husband sexually impotent.

　　Myth No. 4: Sex should always be the most perfect and passionate communication between the souls and bodies of two people.

　　In real life, sex can be of all kinds, mild, wild, long-lasting, short-lived, good or bad. Therefore, if we are depressed and miserable because what we experience is not as good as we imagined, it will only deprive us of the fun we already have, and will make us feel incompetent and defeated endlessly. Therefore, if we accept and face our sex with a normal mentality, we will not be surrounded by pain and confusion.