Reasons why the marriage life of the post-80s generation is ruined

　　The pressure of life and personal vanity have made modern people more and more realistic, forgetting love, morality, and themselves, leading many people to marry for money. How can such a marriage last? Why divorce? There are many reasons that lead to the breakdown of marriages born in the 1980s. Let’s take a look!

　　1. Just to cover up parents’ expectations

　　More and more parents hope that unmarried gays will get married at a young age, but more and more of them are squeezed by reality and have to give up marriage. In order to make a living and for more happiness, they choose not to fall in love, let alone get involved in marriage. Therefore, there has been a phenomenon of "renting boyfriends" and "hiring girlfriends" with high salaries during the holidays. The same phenomenon exists in marriages, that is, "fake marriages."

　　2. Gifts to help parents’ careers

　　In the past, a woman's marriage seemed to be just a bargaining chip, but now can it really make a woman no longer like a weight? Many parents boldly design marriages for their children based on the noble principle of thinking about the future, but this happens to be a stumbling block on the road to happiness. They have no right to fall in love and can only be used as bargaining chips in grand marriage halls.

　　3. The purpose of mutual existence between men and women

　　Men are looking for women, and women are looking for men. Besides true love, there may be another purpose behind them. Perhaps the man is interested in a noble person in the woman's family, or the woman is interested in the man's wealth. While men and women have this kind of game relationship, they ignore one thing, that is, they have sold themselves in marriage, and they have sold them "cheaply".

　　4. Both men and women are hypocritical

　　I don’t know which era in the past, people used to get married first and then develop relationships. Later, as time went by, this phenomenon became worse and worse. However, based on recent observations, this phenomenon seems to have the urge to have an erection. Both men and women do not express their true feelings for each other, but use a kind of coquettish hypocrisy to express their love.

　　5. Love is sold to money and power

　　Chinese marriages may not have been divorced from this reality since ancient times. I have always wondered whether the past officialdom system caused all this. Why must such a marriage be a very happy one? When love is sold to money and power, then love is as full of parasites as spoiled fruit.

　　6. Houses and cars occupy a prominent position

　　Nowadays, although everyone has a car and a house, when I read the marriage advertisements in newspapers, most of the men said that they own a house and a car. For today's generation, having a house and a car is not necessarily a rare thing. The house must be a villa, and the car must be at least four laps. Otherwise, you will feel embarrassed when you marry someone who comes and goes, and your parents will be reluctant to give you their daughter.

　　Why divorce? The above are the ten sins that lead to the collapse of modern marriages. Can they wake up sleeping people? Please don't let the sacred love be stained with dust!