Men’s psychology after domestic violence

Domestic violence is a bad behavior that easily occurs in marriages. This behavior has now violated the law. The reason why male friends engage in domestic violence has a lot to do with their psychology. Most of them are caused by psychological distortions. Then it is necessary to provide psychological treatment to male friends who commit domestic violence. Only psychological adjustment can make the situation better.

1. Misplaced concepts.

Covetous extramarital affairs lead to domestic violence. With the reform and opening up and the establishment of the market economic system, people's ideas and concepts have undergone profound changes. In the fierce collision of various traditional, modern, local, and foreign thoughts, cultures, concepts, and customs, some people have lost their way in their thoughts, and their moral concepts, especially the moral concepts of marriage, have been misaligned.

Some men regard being mean as fashion and use having "extramarital affairs" as capital to show off to others. Some men live illegally with their "mistresses" for a long time and have children. When he returns home, he will pick on his wife, make her feel "different", and force her to divorce under various pretexts. What's more, they will take their "second wife" to live at home and drive the wife out of the house. If the wife resists even slightly, it will lead to domestic violence. According to the survey, there were 60 cases of domestic violence caused by extramarital affairs, accounting for 30%.

2. Some people have twisted personalities and bad conduct.

Directly trigger domestic violence. Some men have twisted personalities and often have unreasonable suspicions about their spouses' inappropriate lifestyles. They do not allow their spouses to talk to the opposite sex, and they do not allow their spouses to supplement the family income by working outside the home to make money. If their spouses resist, they will be subject to domestic violence. ； Some young men and women are addicted to bad habits. They spend all day having fun and doing nothing. They gamble, drink alcohol, and go whoring. Some of them run rampant in the countryside, harming the people, and are bullies that everyone hates. These people have no sense of family responsibility and go home to show off when something doesn't go their way. For example, after losing money in gambling, he forces his wife to borrow money. If she cannot borrow the money, she will be violent. If the wife wants to file for divorce, she will be intimidated and intimidated by them. She often swallows her anger and dare not report it. Such cases account for 22.5% of the total.

3. Serious patriarchal or feminine ideology causes domestic violence.

In the past, people often thought that male chauvinists tended to like beating and scolding their wives, but research by foreign sociologists has refuted this view. On the contrary, feminine men are often more likely to commit domestic violence. Experts explain that feminine men tend to be sensitive and sometimes care about everything. Especially after being suppressed by their wives for a long time, they are very easy to be impulsive, or beat their wives over trivial matters in order to satisfy their self-esteem. In addition, some women have serious feminist ideas and are self-centered. They often deliberately insult and belittle their husbands, and sometimes punch and kick them, which in turn triggers domestic violence.