80% of married men and women have an affair mentality

　　“Since its birth, the word "infidelity" has been almost equivalent to "an immoral hat". The ancient Chinese called this behavior adultery. People at that time punished adulterers extremely severely, so they generally did not talk about it lightly. Due to the severe punishment measures, there is an old saying in China called "Catch a thief and you will see the stolen goods; if you catch an adulterer, you will see the couple", which contains a strong "sexual" color. Since the core of an affair is sexual relations, what about sub-affairs?

　　For a long time, different people have different understandings of what "sex" is, but almost all female Everyone agrees that the most secret part of the body is "sex." The most secret parts of the body are not in contact with the most secret parts of the man. As long as it does not exceed the final limit, it is not an affair and can only be called "sub-affair".

　　Although compared with real affairs, sub-affairs do not have to bear strong moral pressure, but because of the reality of marriage and family, the inner conflict is unavoidable. Because in the traditional Chinese ethical category, male The social space of women is much larger than that of women. Women may still be "immoral" even if they are locked up in Yanzilou. Therefore, it is normal for men to have a "confidant", but it is immoral for women to have a "confidant". Influenced by traditional concepts, China’s restrictions on love are more stringent.“ woman cheating Is the saying “Think first” spread?

　　Inner conflicts and anxieties must find channels to vent. From many radio nighttime emotional dialogue programs to online forums, to blogs, to psychiatrists, men and women who have affairs are constantly relieving their stress. Although they all know that the nature of this relationship is "death in the light", they still run around happily. Where the next stop of the run will be, God knows.