Five pursuits of women in making love

　　“During sex, I always take the initiative to tell Mike how I feel. Rather than letting him fumble around, it would be better to just tell him what to do. ”

　　Smith, the dominator in the bedroom, said Bell when referring to his wife Anna: "Anna will become a 'tyrant' as soon as she gets to the bedroom!" We can discuss other aspects of the family, but I have no say in this matter. “There are many women like Anna who know what they want and how to get it. When making love, they usually have the final say, telling each other what positions to use and how to do it, and they will not allow the other party to rush things before they are completely satisfied.

　　Adams Cook, a sex consultant in Georgia, USA, pointed out that this type of female It is common to admit that they cannot bear to live without sex. Although many male I don't mind experiencing passive emotions and fun occasionally, but there will always be a sense of coercion after being dominated for a long time. You might as well let go and let the man dominate the bed sometimes, so that both parties can experience the fun of dominating and being dominated.

　　For Elena "Snowbik," the Supreme Being, making love should be an expression of love. ”I could never do what my girlfriend did and sleep with someone I just met in a bar and had only two drinks. When it comes to sex, I rely on my husband. If he is satisfied, I am satisfied. “Women of this type advocate "soul first". They give everything to their partners, from body to soul, without reservation. And this devotion and overflowing tenderness are their charm. It is difficult for them to accept sexual behavior outside of marriage, and they even think that it is a kind of betrayal to have someone else's shadow appear in their fantasies when having sex with their husbands. In the bedroom, they are usually content to be completely dominated.

　　Cook reminds women of this type that sooner or later they will find that for their husbands, sex is sometimes just a physical satisfaction. Always sacrificing and suppressing yourself to accommodate the other person, sometimes it will make the other person at a loss what to do. Remember: You also have the right to say "no"!

　　Julia Moore, 36, a pragmatist, believes that physical contact is out of physiological needs, but she cannot be so naked. As a result, she sometimes has to fake orgasms to cooperate with her husband.

　　Women like Julia are "pragmatists" when it comes to sex. They like sex because it brings physical satisfaction. They are the type of people who immediately go to the bathroom to take a shower after having sex.

　　Surveys show that more and more women are beginning to have the courage to admit and accept the fact that sex is also physiologically satisfying. Lena "Wood, a professor of psychology at Wisconsin State University in the United States, advises such people to combine the physical and spiritual, and add some romance to sex as a catalyst, which will help you reach a better state.

　　Explorer Hannah Williams is a sexual explorer. “I like new tricks and often try out different poses and techniques. One time I had a sudden idea to have sex in a parked car, and my husband was so scared that he opened the door and ran away. ”

　　This type of woman has a strong sense of adventure and courage when it comes to sex. Don't just see the superficial appearance that they love novelty. In fact, deep down, they mostly have their own strict values, and it is often difficult for men to influence them to do things they don't like.

　　Cook explained that everyone is curious about sex. Of course, new tricks can add interest, but you must also take into account the other person's tolerance. His suggestion is that if you want your partner to cooperate with you in your adventure, try not to say "Why can't we do this" but say "It might be fun if we did this."

　　No matter which type of open mind they belong to, many women still find it difficult to talk about their body feelings with their partners, but there are also successful examples, such as Maggie "Lee". She said: "When we have sex, I always tell Mike how I feel. Rather than letting him fumble around, it would be better to just tell him what to do. Mike and I would often reach the top at the same time, and it was such a beautiful moment. “This kind of woman who can fully let go of her body and mind knows how to satisfy her own needs while making the other person happy. Communication and caring about the other person's feelings are of course the key.

　　Finally, Cook believes that everyone will express themselves in sex. There is no right or wrong here. The key is that we should accept our uniqueness and try to enjoy that unique feeling.