Good skills to make women feel happy

　　The word clitoris comes from the Greek letter "kleitoris" meaning "hidden." Named so because it is a small fleshy protrusion (3/4-1.5 inches or 2-3 centimeters long) located on the upper part of one of the labia, the clitoris is actually derived from the same tissue as the penis.

　　In addition to providing pleasure, the penis also has a physiological function - a conduit for urine, while the clitoris has no other function except providing pleasure. In addition to its anatomical concealment, people think it is also very hidden and mysterious psychologically. Many men don't know how to treat it, and many don't even know the correct pronunciation of it.

　　Mysterious woman orgasm

　　The clitoris is an extremely sensitive organ that contains more than a man's penis. nerve tip. It's so important that 75% of women cannot achieve orgasm without clitoral stimulation.

　　Because the clitoris responds primarily to self-stimulation, many early psychologists, including Sigmund Freud, believed that orgasms produced by clitoral stimulation occurred primarily in adolescents or sexually immature individuals, while orgasms produced by vaginal stimulation occurred in "mature adults." The idea that vaginal and clitoral stimulation produce two types of orgasms is known to be incorrect. Although different types and locations of stimulation produce different sensations, female There is only one physiological orgasm.

　　The ritual destruction of the clitoris

　　Unfortunately, throughout history there have been those who used evil to gain pleasure. This practice began with female genital mutilation, and these so-called religious rituals still occur in some African countries today.

　　These religious rituals include cutting, removing or altering a woman's body baby , the clitoris in childhood or adolescence. I used to compare this to“ male Like "circumcision," this cutting process leaves victims with scars and permanent pain, especially during menstruation and sexual intercourse. It is worth pointing out that this ritual is more cultural or tribal than religious, and both the United Nations and the World Health Organization have condemned this practice of female genital mutilation and implemented measures.

　　clitoral piercing

　　A practice involving self-destruction of the clitoris that occurs in the United States is called "clitoral piercing." Women who have had this mutilation claim that it increases pleasure in the area. Many people wear a restraint ring (CBR) to pierce the clitoris, which can make self-stimulation easier and more frequent. According to Paul Joannides, only one-third of women have a penis large enough for piercing, and the procedure has two potential dangers. Firstly, this piercing can cause infection, and secondly, it can cause scarring, and a scar in the clitoral area can cause lifelong pain.

　　An experience in sexual stimulation

　　Although the clitoris is stimulated indirectly during intercourse, most women require some direct stimulation of the clitoris at the same time to achieve orgasm. How should a sexual partner treat this pleasurable hidden organ? The answer is very gentle.

　　"The clitoris loves to be teased," says Dr. Jacobsen. It requires very careful stimulation with fingers, lips and tongue. In fact, oral stimulation or "cunnilingus" is probably the best way to arouse the clitoris. Dr. Kenneth Stubbs wrote an entire book on "clitoral kissing." Although the book describes 18 different techniques, the most effective is "clitoral kissing," which is gentle sucking on the clitoris.

　　When asked about clitoral techniques, women are likely to complain that their sex partners are too rough, too fast or slow, or too impatient. In other words, all women are different. The best way to improve your skills is to ask her? Watch her entertain herself and follow her lead. Don’t be shy about admitting your inexperience. The pleasure to come will more than make up for the frustration of your clumsiness.

　　It’s important to remember that the clitoris is a blessing to women and brings a lot of pleasure to their lives. Treat this "ethereal hidden organ" with respect and tenderness!