My girlfriend once had 16 men, just because of her strong sexual desire

　　I'm confused, she has too many boyfriends

　　At the beginning, I discovered that the man was always sending her text messages. I asked her who he was, and she said he was her colleague and he was stalking her. I told her sincerely: You already have a boyfriend, don't have an affair with others. She promised me that the man knew about me, he didn't mind, and he supported my friend being with me. When I was away, I called her, and she often lay with the doctor and talked to me.

　　We met two months before the Chinese New Year. She asked me to go to her house to meet her parents. I went there because it was snowing heavily, but I still drove there. She also came to my house, but she was always with a certain doctor. I only found out about this later.

　　We have been together for almost a year. I accidentally discovered that she had 3 photos of black people, and there were many doubts about them. I tried hard and soft, but she told me everything. I was very painful.

　　She cried and assured me that she was so unprincipled in the past because there was no one around her, she was lonely and bored, and she wanted to find a man to spend the long nights with her, so she was so unprincipled, but now that she has me, she won't be like that anymore. She has a strong sexual desire and cannot live without sex. She went out to eat at KFC and saw a black man, so she went over to chat, and then someone took her back to fuck her. The black man was an international student. She went to see the black man for the second time. The black man went out to buy things, and she crawled on the bed. sleep , then another black man from the opposite dormitory went in, got on top of her and had sex with her.

　　It has been half a year since I found out about these things, and she has indeed been very kind to me and has not contacted any man again. But one time she forced me to get married. I asked her to wait for a while, but she said she was getting older. She is now 26 and could not wait any longer. She became very angry and wanted to break up with me, so I agreed. On the second day after the breakup, she asked her colleagues to introduce friends to her, and then they met, and then they called and sent text messages every day. More than a week later, she came to me again and reconciled, saying that she would never forget me. Now I really don’t know if she will really stop cheating on me and stop messing around in the future.

　　She has been really nice to me since she told me everything. She cried every day and told me that she knew she was wrong and would never do it again. I think she will really get better, but I am very hesitant now. She told me that she couldn't live without a man by her side, but with me, everything would be fine. When she gets married in the future, she will not betray me, not because of me or herself, but because of this family. She has always wanted to have a warm home. So she won't destroy the family. She doesn't care about sex, and she still thinks so now.

　　I really don't understand her. Later, we broke up and got together N times, and every time she broke up very resolutely, and every time she came to my house and lost her temper with my parents. She said some very unpleasant things, saying how bad I was and that she would never be with me again even if she died. Then she called me the next day to make up. This happened no less than 10 times.

　　Let me talk about something important now. She is forcing me to get married on the condition that I buy a house in the city. Her family is from a rural area and she has a younger brother. The environment is not good. I will pay for the house decoration, appliances, etc. alone, and her family will not give a penny. She asked me to go to the notary office to notarize that half of the house belongs to her before getting the marriage certificate, and then give her 3,000 yuan a month for living expenses. Our house here is 8,000 yuan per square meter, and 80 square meters is 640,000 yuan. The decoration is 200,000 yuan, which adds up to 809,000 yuan. I am very disgusted now.

　　I paid for the house purchase, decoration, etc. alone. She didn't contribute a penny. Why did she need me to notarize half of it to her? She said she was afraid that I would divorce him within 7 years of marriage. By then, she wouldn't even have a place to live. Besides, she has a big family. Hospital The nurse earns nearly 4,000 yuan a month and wants me to give her 3,000 yuan a month for living expenses. I have said so much, but I feel that her request is too much. It is not easy for me to find a home in Wuhan city. It is all my parents’ hard-earned money. However, she thinks that it is natural for men to buy a house, and women should do nothing. Moreover, her attitude is very firm, saying that these two conditions are her bottom line, and there is no point of compromise. If she agrees, she will get married, and if she does not agree, she will not negotiate.