Men: Why do we cheat after marriage?

　　“I have been married for 35 years. I don't want anything to change - but our sex life still needs improvement. We were doing pretty well by today's standards. I had several sexual experiences outside of marriage, which I hid from my wife. I know there are no bad consequences, and I know there are some good consequences—each experience teaches me something new to apply in my family. ”

　　“I got married for love, a solid sex life, and companionship. Sex with my wife is great, but I like to try new things. I don't like monogamy, it's too restrictive and one-dimensional. The extramarital affair only affected me by the sadness of the separation and never affected the marriage because I would never be stupid enough to tell my wife. ”

　　“I have been married for nearly 20 years. As time goes by, sex life becomes more and more satisfying. I had an extramarital affair and hid it from my wife. I jumped in and fell in love with the first girl without any scruples. This experience taught me what would happen if I didn’t use my mind to control my emotions. From then on, I was never the same. I don't know what impact this relationship has on my marriage. I have never thought about the connection between my relationship with my wife and my relationship with this girl. ”