Future Health Frontiers Q&A Women’s Health

How to spend your wedding night

Asked by:Catherine

Asked on:Mar 30, 2026 05:32 AM

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  • Bill Bill

    Mar 30, 2026

      First of all, before marriage, both parties should learn some basic sexual knowledge and understand the relationship between men and women. female The structure and physiological characteristics of the organ, so as to avoid making some jokes about mistaking the female urethra for the vagina on the wedding night.

      The groom should properly restrain his desire for quick success and avoid being rough and reckless. Before contacting the sexual organs, you should be gentle and considerate, caressing the bride as much as possible to relieve the bride's tension and doubts, so as to arouse her sexual impulse. The bride's emotional and sexual arousal reaches a certain level and her vulva is moist before having intercourse. During sexual intercourse, the groom should control his impulse and move slowly and softly. If it fails once, he can try several times.

      The bride must overcome her nervousness and fear and cooperate happily with the groom, so as to relax the vaginal muscles and facilitate smooth sexual intercourse. If the hymen ruptures and causes pain, the bride can bend her legs upwards and separate them, support them with her hands, and hold her breath downwards to relieve the pain.

      Some women's vaginal front section is narrow, so they can apply some lubricant to make it easier for the penis to enter, or the man can use his fingers to slowly expand the vagina before having sexual intercourse. Some young couples are very tired from organizing the wedding. At this time, they do not necessarily have sex on the first night. They can rest after expressing their love to each other and postpone the first sex to the second night.

      Many young men and women look forward to enjoying the sweetness of love on their wedding night. However, experts remind newlyweds not to have high expectations for their sex life on their wedding night. The reality may not be as wonderful as imagined.

      For most newlyweds, although they have acquired some sexual knowledge more or less before marriage, once they want to practice it, they will inevitably become too nervous. In a tense and anxious mood, women may experience sexual intercourse pain. male may occur ImpotencePremature ejaculation , leading to the failure of sexual life on the first night of marriage. If you encounter some serious unexpected situations, such as a man's foreskin being incarcerated, the bride suddenly fainting, vaginal laceration, mental allergies, etc., you will not be able to enjoy it to the fullest.

      Even if the sexual intercourse on the first night of marriage is successful, it is often difficult to achieve the expected ideal state. Because the coordination between husband and wife requires certain skills, which cannot be mastered all at once when newly married. Its perfection and maturity require both parties to gradually explore in their sexual life.

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