Deciphering 9 major misunderstandings about men and women’s sexual affairs

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　　1. Size of sexual organs

　　this is many male Confusing and biased questions. actually female The vagina is a very tolerant organ that can accommodate a baby of delivery.

　　Sexologists have found that the female clitoris is the most sensitive organ, followed by the vaginal opening including the labia majora, and the vaginal nerve The receptors are mainly concentrated in the outer 1/3, and the closer they are to the inside, the less distributed they are, and the less sensitive they are.

　　Therefore, in terms of sexual pleasure, a bigger penis is not better. A large penis causes women to feel local pain much more than a normal-sized penis.

　　2. Length of sexual intercourse

　　Although short-term sexual intercourse often cannot fully satisfy both men and women, the longer the sexual intercourse is not the better, the key is to give the woman sufficient time to activate her passion.

　　If the woman starts sexual intercourse without adequate preparation, no matter how long the sexual intercourse lasts, the woman's response will be lukewarm, and she will not be able to reach orgasm in 10 minutes, 20 minutes or even longer.； And if they are well prepared and sexually excited, most women can reach orgasm within 1.5 to 5 minutes of sexual intercourse.

　　Generally speaking, the entire sexual intercourse lasts 10 to 20 minutes to satisfy most men and women. Sexual intercourse that lasts too long often makes people feel tired, reduce local sensitivity, and even make people feel tired and overwhelmed. Of course, there are large individual differences in this regard.

　　3. The importance of female orgasm

　　Although orgasm can bring great pleasure and satisfaction to women, it is not necessary. For the vast majority of women, there is no orgasm in the initial period of sexual life. A relatively strong sexual excitement will make them feel satisfied. This is "sexual satisfaction without orgasm." At this time, they have the moistness of their sexual organs, the release of physical tension, and spiritual satisfaction. Many sexologists believe that if a woman can reach orgasm 5 to 7 times out of 10 times, that is pretty good.

　　There are many reasons for women's lack of orgasm: they have not really "mature" in sexual psychology and physiology, hormone disorders, improper caress and sexual intercourse techniques, and husbands' ejaculation Wait too soon. Of course, there’s also the “sexual satisfaction without orgasm” mentioned above.

　　Although many women do not experience orgasm, they are satisfied with their sex life with their husbands and are also satisfied with their husbands. The husband is not necessarily responsible for the wife's lack of orgasm, but more likely because their sex life is not harmonious. For example, the wife is too introverted and suppresses her sexual response. ； The husband doesn’t know what his wife needs, and although she knows it, she doesn’t want to say it out loud ； Although the wife can achieve orgasm, she must adopt a certain position that does not seem to be "decent", and she tries her best to conceal her requirements, etc. Therefore, in order to achieve orgasm, mutual understanding and full expression between couples is crucial.

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