7 major panic attacks that men have in bed

　　Ancient China was mostly a patriarchal clan society, and men have always been the backbone of the family. We generally believe that men are strong, strong, able to withstand heavy pressure and carry heavy responsibilities, so we place heavy social pressure and family responsibilities on men. Little do they know that Difficult people, who are the pillars of society and the family, are often exhausted. In fact, men are far from being as strong as we think. They are also afraid, even fearful... Men's fear is manifested in many ways, and they also have unknown fears when it comes to sex.

　　Ordinary people always think that when it comes to sex, men are always aggressive and possessive. We often say that men are animals that think with their lower bodies, and they play an active role. But many men also have sexual fears when it comes to sex... Due to face issues, they will not speak out about these problems, because for them, there is no more private issue than this.

　　A sexologist in Chicago once said: "Men will panic and be afraid when something threatens their self-esteem, and sex is the foundation for men to establish and maintain their self-esteem. ”So during sex, if a man suddenly feels panicked and overwhelmed, it must be that you have done something inappropriate.

　　So, what are those panic attacks that men have in bed?

　　1. Fear that time will not last long enough

　　There are no standards for how long sex should last, but many male They often feel that the longer the time, the better. They believe that the longer the time, the stronger their sexual function and the higher their sexual skills. At the same time, the longer the time, the more satisfying their wives will be. Therefore, when men compare their sexual abilities with each other, they often brag about how long they have had sex. Deep in the hearts of men, they are always worried that their lovemaking time is not long enough, so that female Not fun enough.

　　In fact, the time of making love includes the preparation of both parties before sexual intercourse, until the end of sexual intercourse, when both parties caress each other to complete the after-play of sexual life. This whole process is the real time of making love. This process can last for dozens of minutes or even longer. And women's sexual satisfaction is not directly proportional to the length of men's sexual intercourse.

　　Therefore, men should not blindly believe that the longer the sexual intercourse, the better. If you feel that it cannot last until your wife is satisfied, then increase the time of pre-play and post-play, or add some fresh ingredients to sex and try new methods. Sex will also make your wife feel satisfied.

　　2. Fear of not knowing women’s needs

　　Because of shyness, women will remain reserved, especially during sex, and will never express their feelings. Therefore, in the life of a couple, a man will follow his own routine, but he does not know the needs of women, for fear that he will not be able to satisfy the other party. This is another major fear that men have in their sexual lives.

　　Because you don't know the needs of the other person, you will be confused and unable to prescribe the right medicine, let alone allow the other person to enjoy the pleasure of orgasm. Men can only learn about women's physiological structure through other channels, hoping to explore some ways. However, everyone's physiological structure is not exactly the same, and everyone's desires are not the same, so general theories cannot be applied to everyone.

　　As his closest person, there is no need to be shy. You have to give him guidance: guide him not with words but with your hands as much as possible. Just hold his hand and guide him to make movements that make you feel pleasure. This will not only make it easier for him to understand you better, but also allow you to enjoy different pleasures, which is more conducive to closer intimacy between husband and wife.