Top 10 sexual knowledge for newlyweds

　　More and more young people are planning to get married. The editor has compiled the necessary knowledge for newlyweds to help newlyweds have a wonderful honeymoon.

　　1. Is bleeding and pain a virgin?

The first thing a newlywed comes into contact with when having sex for the first time is the "hymen" issue. The hymen has always played a more important role in social and moral concepts than other sexual organs. This is because its integrity has always been considered a reliable indicator, or even the only indicator, to determine a woman's chastity. In fact, from the perspective of medical practice, it is not scientific to judge whether a virgin is a virgin based on bleeding and pain. Because not every virgin bleeds or has pain during sexual intercourse for the first time, and the characteristics of the hymen vary from person to person. It can be thin, thick, loose, tight, large, or small, and the shapes are also different. Some are ruptured due to strenuous exercise, cycling, trauma, insertion of menstrual suppositories, masturbation, etc. ； In some cases, the hymen has receded on its own in older people. ； Some are not obvious at birth: some hymens are very stretchable and remain intact despite repeated sexual intercourse. Therefore, it is obviously extremely unfair to judge a wife's chastity based solely on her hymen.

　　2. What to do if sexual intercourse fails for the first time?

Failure to have sex on the wedding night is also very common. According to analysis, the main reasons for failure of sexual intercourse for the first time are: the penis is weak (caused by excessive tension) before sexual intercourse, accounting for 10% ； Before sexual intercourse ejaculation or just contacted female 8% of cases result in vaginal ejaculation (due to over-excitement and impatience)； 35% of women suffer from pain ； 15% do not know the location of sexual intercourse ； Unknown reasons account for 20%. On the other hand, the failure of first-time sexual intercourse is related to the experience of caressing. Inexperienced people account for 2/3 of the people who fail. After the first-time sexual intercourse fails, they can understand the reason for 1/3. Most of the losers can successfully couple after 2 to 5 trial intercourses. If the man fails, the woman's accusations such as "really useless" and "too bad" will often cause the man who feels deeply ashamed and uneasy to suffer greater psychological frustration and get into trouble. At this time, if the woman can be reasonable and murmur love words as if nothing has happened, and encourage and comfort the man, the man will regain his courage and seek a harmonious and happy sexual life.