Find it Female orgasm is no longer a dream

　　1/3female Five tips to solve rare orgasms 
 
Ms. Chen, 45 years old, looks dignified and virtuous, but something has been bothering her. Recently, she couldn't help but ask the doctor: "I have never experienced the orgasm that a woman should have. I have never had vaginal swelling or contraction, nor have I ever experienced the soaring clouds and ecstasy that my friends call me. ”According to surveys, about 1/3 of women never or rarely achieve orgasm during sex, and 20% only achieve it during masturbation. Although people are not entirely clear why it is so difficult, sexology experts believe that as long as you actively strive for it, act "relaxed" and think "transferably", you can always develop your sexual abilities and achieve orgasm.

　　No orgasm, which is indeed a pity. Not every woman can enjoy orgasm, but she can achieve it through hard work. The Third Affiliated School of Sun Yat-Sen University Hospital Chen Jun, a specialist in infertility and sexual medicine, analyzed that women can achieve orgasm through clitoral and vaginal stimulation. It should be said that more than half of them have opened one channel, and a few have opened two channels, but about 1/3 of women have never had either channel opened.

　　“In outpatient clinics, we often encounter some women who are conservative and stubborn. They are likely to lack any positive motivation and no more sexual skills. At the same time, they also feel that their responsibility is to please the man. This role expectation also makes them feel that they have no right to pursue sexual enjoyment. The standard of a good woman in their imagination is to 'promise'. They must obey their husbands. Even if they have any dissatisfaction in their sexual life, they are unwilling to speak out for fear of appearing too frivolous. This state is obviously anti-climax. ”Chen Jun said.

　　Chen Jun said that if women imagine that they can have miraculous erections and erections like their husbands, ejaculation , she will be able to seek more muscle and pelvic movement, vigorous thrusts, vocalizations, and rapid breathing. But in fact, these women who stay outside the channel always hope that their husbands will bring them orgasm without her having to make any effort, and this effort is precisely the necessary condition for her to achieve orgasm.