9 tips to make orgasm easier for women

　　Tip 1: Love your body

　　modern female Nine out of ten people think they are too fat. When meeting naked, this kind of self-deprecating view sometimes prevents two people from enjoying the fun they deserve. For example, a person who thinks his breasts are too small may feel inferior when his partner touches his breasts, and subconsciously avoid his hands or direct his attention elsewhere. Over time, such signals can cause distress to the partner, thus affecting the sexual relationship.

　　One woman trained herself to think that even though she didn't have big breasts, the fact that men were happy to sleep with her proved that they didn't think there was anything wrong with her breasts. Just like that, she no longer resisted her male partner touching her breasts.

　　Tip 2: Learn to masturbate

　　now that male first time ejaculation Usually from masturbation, and the proportion of women doing this is definitely not low. In fact, masturbation is a very effective way to learn, because after you understand your own body, you can guide your partner to use the most appropriate way when making love. Another benefit of masturbating is that you can definitely reach orgasm.

　　Tip 3: Pleasing yourself is as important as pleasing the other person

　　Sometimes, women try their best to accommodate each other's needs because they are afraid that the other person will not be satisfied. But sex is actually about giving and receiving from both parties. If you blindly satisfy the other party, in the end, women will become hating "that thing." Women should explain their needs directly to each other without feeling guilty or embarrassed, because in fact, men like women who can enjoy sex.

　　When a man discovers that his actions can bring happiness to a woman, it can excite him more than any aphrodisiac.

　　Tip 4: Don’t fake orgasm

　　In order to please men, some women can fake orgasms so realistically that men cannot tell the difference. But when they do this, they don't think about the long-term consequences: If they don't feel happy but pretend to climax, it will undoubtedly make the man continue to repeat his wrong actions next time, because he mistakenly believes that this way can make women happy.

　　A woman once had this experience: her partner rubbed her vagina vigorously in an attempt to bring her to orgasm, but it caused her great pain. She was embarrassed to tell him that his way was too rough, so she faked an orgasm to get him to stop. Unexpectedly, he would rub her in this rough way every time, causing her more and more pain. Finally, she couldn't bear it anymore and had to tell him the truth. This devastated the man and made the woman very remorseful. It would have been better if she had made it clear at the beginning.

　　Usually, men seem to be able to jump right in without any foreplay and enjoy it. In fact, this is their own misunderstanding. Touching and teasing can make a man excited because when a woman does this, she is saying how much she likes his body. Some women will be shy and dare not take action, but there is absolutely no man who doesn’t like women to do this, so just do it boldly and you will get visible results immediately.

　　Touching and teasing is very simple, just keep running your fingers across his body, especially his inner thighs and nipples; sometimes touch his lower part as a tease. In addition, women can also use their hair, tongue and eyelashes to increase the teasing effect.

　　Tip 5: Don’t be afraid of sexual fantasies

　　One woman admitted that every time she had sex with her husband, she imagined she was having sex with Leonardo. This imagination made her extremely excited, and her husband also got pleasure from her wild movements. She thought it didn't matter, since she couldn't really have an affair with Matt Damon anyway. Experts say sexual fantasies are healthy , because not only is it a great motivator, but what happens in fantasy doesn't have to be real at all.

　　For example, if a heterosexual man fantasizes about lesbian scenes, it does not mean that he is gay; if a woman imagines having sex with a man other than her husband, it does not mean that she wants to have an affair. Sexual fantasies only show that the person has a rich imagination, and this can indeed stimulate sexual intercourse.

　　Tip 6: Don’t stay the same

　　If you have sex in the exact same way every night, even if you climax every time, it will still become boring in the end. This is because there are no expectations anymore. According to a woman's personal experience: as long as she is on top and rubs the man's vagina with her hips in circles, she can reach orgasm. Therefore, they adopt this position every time they have sex, reaching climax quickly and then ending it in a hurry, leaving no satisfaction at all.

　　In fact, it is the old saying: the slower it reaches your mouth, the more flavorful it will be. In other words, the slower you reach climax, the more intense the pleasure will be. When taking the most stimulating position, as soon as it reaches a level that is enough to arouse excitement, do not wait for the climax to come, and then change to other positions. Doing this is not only used to delay the onset of orgasm, but also takes the opportunity to explore the fun of other positions.

　　Tip 7: Understand the other person’s body

　　We know everyone is different, and that's no different when it comes to sex. If women have had sexual experience with other men before, they sometimes use the same methods on their current partners, which is inappropriate. So, how do you know what style the other person likes? This depends on careful observation.

　　Of course, some people will automatically express their preferences by moaning or shouting, but many people may be the type where silence is golden. At this time, you can listen to whether his breathing speeds up or gasps; whether his pupils suddenly dilate; whether his jaw becomes loose; and the most obvious thing is that the penis becomes hard. It won't take long to observe like this, and you will be able to match his preferences perfectly.

　　Tip 8: Make good use of auxiliary equipment

　　Both sex merchandise and pornographic videos are great tools to spice up sex, as they can provide many new ideas and increase excitement. For some people, sex merchandise can even solve the problem of sexual incompatibility. One woman who had difficulty reaching orgasm had to embarrass her partner by having to reach orgasm on her own after her partner withdrew.

　　Later, she bought a kind of pad with a surface full of particles and a hole in the middle for the penis to penetrate. She placed it on her vagina. This way, every time her partner inserted it, the pad would rub against her vagina, which brought her the pleasure she had never experienced before. You can buy this kind of things through TV mail order or online to avoid unnecessary embarrassment.

　　Tip 9: Spying on other people’s sex lives

　　Although snooping is generally bad, sometimes snooping can bring positive power if your sex life is not satisfactory. Because seeing the happiness of others will stimulate you to think of ways to change the current situation.

　　After a girl broke up with her boyfriend, she couldn't stand it when she saw her roommate bringing men home every night. She finally decided to go out and find a new partner, and she successfully found one. If it weren't for the stimulation from her roommate, she might have locked herself away for a long time and felt sorry for herself.