Future Health Frontiers Q&A Women’s Health

How do women view "virgins"”

Asked by:Doris

Asked on:Mar 24, 2026 09:12 AM

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  • Beaman Beaman

    Mar 24, 2026

      It is precisely because of society's emphasis on the hymen that women desperately want to keep this last line of defense. However, it is the new millennium after all, and women can finally talk about their own problems calmly. Take a look at the following descriptions of the women themselves. Whether they are men or women, should they have a clearer understanding of this topic?

      Ms. A: The highest state of love must be expressed through sex

      I don't take the issue of virginity that seriously. How should I put it? It's my own business. As long as I am responsible for my own actions, no one can blame me. When the love between two people develops to a certain stage, only sex can be used to express it. This may be one of the reasons why people choose to get married.

      Ms. B: Never have sex before marriage

      Even if I love that person again, I will not have sex with him before marriage. If he breaks up with me because of this, I won't regret it. I thought that being a virgin was a guarantee for a long-lasting marriage, and I would be embarrassed if I lost my virginity before marriage. My husband will love me more because I was a virgin when we married him. As for whether the person I marry is the person I love the most, it doesn't matter. As long as I have a stable family, it's enough. Where can there be so many romantic things?

      Ms. C: I feel embarrassed if I am a virgin.

      If a woman was a virgin in her twenties I would feel embarrassed for her. This means that few people love her or that she is a little abnormal. If there is no sexual experience before marriage, various unexpected problems may arise after marriage due to lack of sexual experience. It would be even more ridiculous if a woman in her thirties is still proud of being a virgin. Such a life is too abnormal. It is a woman's right to enjoy sex.

      Ms. D: It depends on the situation

      It is rare for people to fall in love successfully once. It is impossible for a person to love only one person in his life. If the man who received my first love was not my husband, well, it depends. If he doesn't care, that's the best thing, and he can live his life easily. If he cares and I have to marry him, well, sorry, technology is so advanced now, what's the big deal? Don't say I'm despicable, I do it to satisfy men's needs. Besides, what can I use to prove him?

      Ms. E: Chastity of mind is better than chastity of body

      If a woman loses her virginity, people have no right to blame her. Maybe it was an accidental mistake, maybe it was for true love. Purity of soul is the most important thing, men should not be stupid.

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