What causes women to be sexually hungry

　　I once saw a "sex-starved" person on a forum. female of crying. Of course, she was "sexually sanctioned" by her "husband". But there are many women in life who are in a state of "sex hunger", but most of them don't have the courage to face it and fight it.

　　The difference in physiological responses between men and women determines that sexual harmony is not something that comes with birth. The vast majority of men just know how to follow their feelings and act instinctively during sex. In the long-term evolution, the environment in which human beings live is extremely unsafe, and the instinct of survival requires male End sexual intercourse as soon as possible, and be on guard at all times from the beasts wandering around you; women instinctively need to lie down for half an hour to facilitate the fertilization of the egg. Uterus On "fixation" (implantation).

　　In ancient times, survival was only for reproduction. In the long history, "sexual harmony" was not considered! To a certain extent, sexual disharmony is innate.

　　Generally speaking, the responsibility for determining sexual harmony lies with men, which is determined by social roles and physiological characteristics. The most common symptoms of "sexually hungry" women are as follows:

　　First, the sexual partner’s lack of sexual knowledge and skills

　　This is the most common. Most men believe that sex is instinctive. "Don't I even know how to have sex?" is almost the common language of men. I have discussed above that the male sexual instinct is to end sexual intercourse as soon as possible and to be wary of harm from predators. Men who only rely on instinct to have sex cannot bring sexual satisfaction to women. Long-term sexual dissatisfaction can easily cause "sexual hunger" in normal women. From the perspective of enjoying a harmonious sex life, there are indeed many men who “can’t even have sex!” ”

　　Second, sexual and physiological incoordination

　　Generally speaking, after a woman reaches the age of 30, her sexual psychology and sexual physiology become more mature. Around the age of 40, due to the decline in ovarian function and the increase in androgen levels, women's sexual desire is relatively high; but at this time, their sexual partners, middle-aged men, are often at the time when they have the heaviest burden in their lives. They are struggling to cope with the pressure of work and life. In addition, if they do not have correct sexual health knowledge for life guidance, they often feel that their sexual ability has declined and is not what it used to be, and it is difficult to meet women's sexual needs. Especially for those couples with old husbands and young wives, women are more likely to be "sexually hungry".

　　Third, the male’s “love heart””

　　This is half a moral issue and half a physiological one. We have already discussed men's playfulness in the article "The Playboy Man". However, women should not neglect the protection of their appearance and the cultivation of their temperament, so as to maintain the attractiveness that women should have. Some Western sexologists said in a slightly extreme way: "A woman's 40-year-old is the peak period of sexual desire, but some women's appearance has declined to the point that her husband is no longer interested in taking a second look. This is the tragedy of women. ”

　　Fourth, family discord

　　This is no longer a medical problem. A woman imposes "sexual sanctions" on her because her "husband" discovers that she is not a virgin when they get married and refuses to have sex with her. In this situation, it is better to leave him. He is not the only man in the world, so there is no need to hang himself from a tree.

　　Once you understand these causes of sexual hunger, you no longer have to worry about sexual matters. Speak out your sexual desires boldly and have sex bravely.