What topics do men and women most like to talk about after sex?

　　Quite a few healthy female The first orgasm does not occur until a few days to several years after marriage, and some occur during childbirth.

　　They only appear after having children, and their eyes always slowly fall behind men, and men have a characteristic of being impatient at critical moments and braking immediately, so that many mandarin ducks are never able to fly together and enjoy the wonderful state of soaring in the clouds and mist together.

　　In recent years, domestic and foreign sexual science research has revealed that if you want to achieve orgasm, you might as well boldly tell your husband about your sexual feelings, which is conducive to orgasm. A questionnaire survey of 515 married women by a domestic sexology research institute showed that only 20% of wives who did not often express sexual feelings achieved orgasm, while more than 50% of women who often talked about their sexual feelings to their husbands had an orgasm, and wives who often guided their husbands in sexual movements had a 67% chance of reaching orgasm.

　　Although Chinese sexual culture has a long history, the Chinese sexual culture model in modern times has played a constraining role. In sexual life, restricted by certain concepts, many wives are afraid to express their sexual feelings to their husbands, and even regard sex life as a burden, and even hate sex life. Therefore, we recommend that wives who cannot reach orgasm frequently should not be shy about talking to their husbands about their sexual feelings. So, how should a wife talk to her husband?

　　1. After having sex and both parties feel happy, you can express to your husband what you like about his actions in sex. Be careful to only talk about those things that make you very comfortable and happy, and don't mention the bad or dissatisfactory aspects for the time being. In this way, you can encourage your husband's self-confidence and mobilize his love.

　　2. Tell your husband about your feelings and emotional needs in sexual life. You only need to tell your husband truthfully. It is better to be more detailed, but you must not specifically focus on your husband's shortcomings.

　　3. Summarize the days on which you are more likely to have the desire to have sex within a month, and tell your husband this general rule, but there is no need to investigate the reasons.

　　4. Tell your husband clearly what you want him to do during sex and how to do it well. This is not a request, nor is it an order, it just means: if your husband does this, you will be more happy.

　　5. Discuss with your husband what specific practices in sexual life have had on you, including those that have had bad effects. Of course, there are also useless ones.