How to make love in bed to be satisfied

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　　A varied sex life is enough to be high? We are always used to thinking of ourselves as "sex supermen". Those misconceptions misled by various advertisements for Viagra and aphrodisiacs have made us farther and farther away from the joy of sex. Correcting the following three most common sexual misunderstandings may be the best way to achieve "sexual happiness."

　　Is it normal to have sex more than three times a week?

　　More or less, just do your best

　　Case1: Daria and Bloom have always had a regular sex life, having sex twice a week on average. Both parties are relatively satisfied. But one day, Daria saw a sex statistics report in a magazine, which actually said that "only 10% of people aged 20-30 have sex no more than three times a week." Daria collapsed at the time: She and Bloom were both under 30 years old, so why were they so little? Is there something wrong with Bloom or herself?

　　Analysis: A very important criterion in the research results of modern sex studies is that social statistical averages must be separated from personal preferences. In other words, statistics cannot be used as a standard to measure whether an individual is "normal" or not. The survey results show that individual differences are particularly prominent in human sexual behavior, and the differences between different individuals may be thousands of times greater. In other words, even if others have clouds and rains every day or even seven degrees a night, it has nothing to do with you. You don’t need to compare with them. If you feel that it is enough, comfortable and satisfied, then that is the standard.

　　Moreover, no one can tell whether this type of investigation is consistent with the facts. First, different methods used in survey methods and sample selection will produce different results. Secondly, this type of investigation can only rely on the dictation of the person being investigated, and he can make random remarks.

　　Wang Xiaobo mentioned this in his article "The Sociology of Torture": The United States once conducted a large-scale sexual behavior survey, the national treasury allocated huge sums of money, and the government provided confidential population records. Scientists are also very serious and responsible, but their conclusions are often unreliable.

　　For example, the United States male Said that he had sex four or five times a month； female Then it is said that there are two or three times in one month. How do you explain the extra times? Also, there are fewer homosexuals among Catholics and more homosexuals among atheists. Does this mean that those who do not believe in religion will become homosexuals? The conclusion can only be that some respondents are not telling the truth.

　　Coincidentally, a magazine at hand also published a set of data: the global population has sex an average of 103 times a year, and the Chinese have sex about 96 times, which means that we have sex twice a week on average. Now we have three sets of data, all of which seem authoritative. Which one do you think is more credible?

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