Understand 7 misconceptions about sex life

　　One of the misconceptions: You are solely responsible for whether the other person is able to satisfy you during caressing.

　　Caressing is a matter between two people, and it is not entirely your responsibility to satisfy the other person. But if you can take into account the other person's needs, it can indeed enhance the other person's enjoyment.

　　Misconception No. 2: The more you pay attention to your sexual performance during intimacy, the better your sexual performance will be.

　　This is a big mistake. If you only think about what to do, you won't feel anything. Let everything take its course and don't analyze specific performance, but you will get the best feeling.

　　Misconception No. 3: Having just one sexual partner makes you bored over time.

　　Lifelong partners can have long-lasting sexual relationships, and getting bored often comes from not understanding the other person well or not being deeply affectionate. To maintain a sense of freshness, both parties can be more bold, lively and original when making love.

　　Misconception No. 4: male Sexual ability reaches its peak in youth and then declines.

　　Gujiu hormone, which affects male sexual arousal, is usually secreted most and reaches its peak when young. However, male sexual performance does not solely depend on physiological factors. How he feels about himself, his sexual partners, and sex will all affect how his body responds. Therefore, if older men healthy If you are in good condition, have some understanding of your sexual abilities, and have a partner you like, you may be able to express love better than younger men.

　　Misconception No. 5: Sex should always be a passionate spiritual communication between a man and a woman.

　　Sex won't always be like this, it only happens in novels. In real life, it may be passionate, mild or dull, it may have climaxes, it may be peaceful interdependence, and there are many situations. If thorough spiritual communication is regarded as the goal of sex, the goal itself will be distracting, and forcing spiritual unity will be difficult to achieve.

　　Misconception No. 6: Independent and enterprising female It can make men impotent.

　　Generally speaking, women do not cause men's sexual impotence. Men's sexual impotence is mainly caused by their own insecurity. However, in the opinion of many men, the best sexual partners are women who take the initiative. If women may cause men to be impotent, women who are completely passive during intimacy are more likely to make their partners do the same. Of course there are exceptions.

　　Myth #7: Sex should always be impromptu.

　　Many couples feel that modern life is so busy that they don't have time to have sex, so they think sex should be impromptu. In fact, this is not good. Although you should not set a time for going out because it is too unnatural, you should arrange a time for two people to be together. This will make you happier.