4 major problems that are most likely to occur in sex life

　　1. Will he dislike me after I give birth to a child?

　　After the wife gives birth, it is normal for the husband to lose his "sexual interest", but fortunately this process is very short, that is, only a few weeks. This does not mean that their wives lose their appeal in their eyes, it is mainly out of consideration for their wives. They know their wife has just been through some pain and don't want to put any more pressure on her. Psychologists believe that at this time, it is natural for couples to focus their energy on their children. But this special phase will soon pass. Communication between husband and wife is particularly important. The wife should not just take care of baby , and neglected the care and tenderness for her husband. Otherwise he will feel "abandoned".

　　2. The book says that the average frequency of sexual intercourse between couples is once or twice a week, but we haven’t had intercourse for several months. Is there anything wrong with us?

　　No. The frequency of sex varies from person to person. Every couple goes through a period of sexlessness. Sex is intermittent, coming on and off, hot and cold. This is mostly caused by external factors, such as financial constraints, fatigue, irritability, anxiety, interruptions from children, etc. Even some subtle psychological changes can have an impact. This is exactly what the so-called "full, warm and lustful" means. You can't still be interested in having sex when the stock price plummets.

　　Why do I still feel a sense of loss after sex?

　　3. Despite my husband’s best efforts, I still feel a sense of loss after sex. Is there something wrong with me?

　　no problem. At best, there is no good communication. Men instinctively know what to do, but women are shy about telling their husbands which parts of the body need caressing, and are disappointed when their husbands don't do it. In fact, you can either tell him personally what to do, or you can unknowingly guide his hands to touch the sensitive parts you desire to caress, and express your pleasure in time to encourage him to continue. This subtle interaction goes a long way toward a harmonious couple's life.

　　4. Will children panic if they see us having sex?

　　It's best to keep it out of sight of children. Because it may arouse their sexual consciousness, imitate adults in playing sexual games with their friends. If you do see it, carefully explain it to your child and tell him not to make a fuss. This is a way for everyone to express love. Don't tell him that only adults can do this kind of thing, as that will arouse his curiosity.