What secrets can men not tell?

　　man's vanity

　　Men are all players. If a man likes racing and is a center forward on the football field, his charm in front of women will immediately increase. Therefore, men must know a few real skills, and at best, they must play one of them in a decent way, so as not to be embarrassed in front of women. So there is a man who, in order to teach his girlfriend how to play tennis, first practices hard on his own in secret. You can't take the house with you, so there are men who spend all their money to buy expensive cars and cheat them. If they can't borrow one or rent one for a day, they can satisfy their vanity.

　　Maupassant's "The Necklace" in middle school, the wife of a vain civil servant worked hard for ten years for a necklace. At that time, I thought vanity was only for women. After growing up, I realized that men actually love vanity more than women. A woman's vanity is superficial, a necklace can satisfy her vanity, but a man's vanity is deep in his bones.

　　past emotional experiences

　　Every man's past is a well-kept spiritual diary. He may occasionally take it out and look through it, but he will never share it with others easily; especially the chapter about women. But almost all men have complex and vicissitudes of emotional experience. In the men's circle, showing off how excellent and beautiful the women they have been around is a special way for men to prove themselves; but when it comes to women today, they will never mention it easily, because the past, no matter how unforgettable it is, is a matter in another world. What's more, even a woman with high quality and self-cultivation will inevitably not break the casserole and ask the truth about the past. If she encounters a "jealous jar", wouldn't she be asking for trouble?

　　Everyone will be curious about the past of the person they love most, and want to have everything about their lover. It is an instinct, the instinct of love. But once you know, apart from pain, what will be left behind? Love needs to be sincere, but it also needs secrets. The so-called secret is to give love a space, let love breathe freely, and keep love fresh and mysterious. Finally, one day, when I mustered up the courage to say it to him, he stopped me. He gently pressed my lips and said, don't say anything. Everyone has a past. Without the past, there is no present. No one has the right to trample on other people's spiritual green space. Listen to a man’s heart: If you love me, don’t ask about my past.