See how men choose their wives

　　A man's taste lies in his choice of wife. The kind of wife he chooses is equivalent to the kind of life he chooses. As the saying goes, men are afraid of getting into the wrong profession, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. Men are not the same. Hong Yingming, who wrote "Cai Gen Tan", once said, "A strong wife who criticizes is worse than being deaf!" ”Nongyao is not as good as Danjiu, and the same is true for marriage. The great writer Shakespeare wrote many wonderful plays in his life, but his view on marriage did not have any romantic color. Because he is well aware of the difficulties of marriage, and he also understands that life will consume love.

　　In this life, what exactly do we need? What is really needed is a good attitude and a relaxed mood. Only family harmony and mentality healthy Only those who have the necessary conditions for leisure. For example, marrying a good woman can give a man a leisurely mood.

　　1. The most important quality of a woman should be kindness, and filial piety comes first.

　　I don’t know how many miserable men in the world are suffering from the hostility between their wives and their own mothers? If I were a man, if the girl who was going to be my wife dared to ask me, "If your mother and I fall into the river, who will you save first?" ”I will definitely pass her, this is not human words at all!

　　2. Virtue, this is eternal female virtue.

　　3. Be knowledgeable and courteous. This is a requirement for women in the new era to keep pace with the times.

　　A woman's temperament and upbringing are the expression of her inner richness, and are also where she truly distances herself from others.

　　4. Thoughtful and tasteful.

　　Being thoughtful makes her disdainful of getting involved in other people's gossip. She has always been an "insulator". Having good taste allows her to express her style with originality. I can't tolerate my wife being unable to walk when she sees anything. It's not that I'm poor, so I can't tolerate her!

　　5. Sensible.

　　The most important thing for a man is dignity. She can criticize me at home, but she cannot ridicule or ridicule me in public. A woman who doesn't know how to maintain her husband's dignity should not be ignored.

　　6. Full trust and relative freedom.

　　It is actually human nature to like the new and dislike the old. No one can guarantee that he will only have a good impression of one person in his life. I advise all women in the world who are about to get married to study "Medical Psychology" carefully, fully understand their husbands' hobby of gazing at beautiful women in illustrated magazines and web pages, and not to be picky because of these subconscious behaviors. Otherwise it will push the marriage to death. He wanted to stay alone for a while, without asking endless questions, just bring him a cup of tea and close the door gently.

　　7. Have a stable income.

　　Women can be independent and self-respecting if they do not depend on men to survive.

　　8. No excessive material desires.

　　This is very important! Since ancient times, success has come from frugality and failure has come from luxury. What's more, her complacency and optimistic nature enable her to continue her youth. Excessive vanity often makes men who are not "rich" mentally nervous and even overwhelmed by it. My wife should be able to sit in a BMW and ride a bicycle ； You can live in a five-star hotel or even stay in a camping tent. Only by enduring hardship can you become a master.

　　9. Refuse to indulge in feasting and entertainment, and do not be overly enthusiastic about the opposite sex.

　　She has good living habits. Smoking, drinking, and all-night parties will not happen to her. She will not spend time in bars or nightclubs. She knows that her value is not to please the opposite sex, so she will not take the initiative to strike up a conversation with other men. Only those who are high-minded and unobtrusive are in high spirits.

　　10. Innocence is a bit childlike.

　　If a man really likes a woman, he should protect her innocence to the greatest extent. A woman who has not lost her childishness can make long and boring eye contact endlessly enjoyable.

　　11. Like reading and music.

　　If you like reading, you don’t want to read colorful fashion magazines. If you like music, you don’t want to read popular songs that you will forget once you hear them. Classic books and music can prevent time and the trivialities of life from leaving their mark on her soul.

　　12. Strong working ability and special skills.

　　Women at work obviously don't have much time for paranoia. Having a skill will make her enjoy herself and control her emotions well.

　　13. Of course, you must not be ugly, nor too pretty. It should be the kind that becomes more pleasing to the eye the more you look at it.

　　14. Be in good health and understand health regimen and basic medicine. common sense。

　　15. Another important point is that married life is a world full of color, life and movement. It is difficult to imagine a woman who is not romantic and interesting to be a good wife.

　　The above 15 standards should be in place. With such a woman, even if the sun and the stars and the moon are cold, and the mountains and trees are withered, the light of marriage can still burn warmly at the beginning of memory, in any visible and unknown corner.……