Revealed: The psychology of men on their first date

　　Secretly rehearsing the date in your mind

　　The first condition for close contact is mutual affection. It's too rash. It doesn't feel good to be slapped or poured wine on your face by a woman in public, right?

　　testing female When it comes to their feelings, men are definitely sensitive and calculating old foxes. When watching a movie, it is a common acting skill to pretend to touch the woman's hand lightly without any intention, or to confirm her reaction with slight physical contact such as bringing your knee close to the woman's knee.

　　After confirmation, how to take action? Extending the date is the first priority. It is suggested to have dessert after the meal, take a walk together, or send the woman home. Once such an invitation is made, it can be basically concluded that he is a drunkard who is not interested in drinking anymore.

　　Can they accept the kiss and finally commit themselves to each other? Several nights before the date, they have been simulating the action plan from the date to the final ending, asking their best friends for advice, posting on the Internet, and thinking about when and where to kiss. During a date, they rack their brains to consider their next move, so they often speak absent-mindedly and chew food without knowing the taste. Even if the women around them have entered into a sweet conversation, they often don't realize it.

　　Most afraid of being rejected for the first invitation

　　With the development of technology, we should have more time to fall in love, but the fact is that urban men and women not only have to work longer hours, but the distance between where they live and where they work is also getting farther and farther. Some surveys even believe that they have no more than 22 hours a day to do whatever they want and do as they please. 3 minutes. Among them, women need to use 21. 2 minutes to decide what to wear; men take 18. 7 minutes to trim your hair and shave. The real idle time is 1 respectively. 1 minute and 3. 6 minutes. Of course, the above statement is a bit exaggerated, but you have to admit that dating is a very time-consuming thing.

　　In order to improve the hit rate, 57% male They met their partners through friends, 31% met them by chance at a bar or party, and 12% chose to date their work partners. Once a man wants to get close to a woman, most of them will take the initiative to invite her.

　　72% of men will have their first date at a restaurant and then watch a movie; 27% will go hiking or doing sports, and the remaining 1% will think of some unexpected ways.

　　For men, the first date is very important, and there are many men who have the mentality of "get it done once". If the first invitation is rejected, he will lose confidence and may try his luck with another woman. It is a big mistake to think that all men are like candy and have unyielding faith. Not every man is strong nerve , can withstand "torture", they are also afraid of setbacks, worried about being ruthlessly rejected, and easily fall into the conditioned reflex of protecting themselves.