What are the benefits of having two children if you can have two children alone?

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　　1. Having a second child can promote family harmony

　　As we all know, the Chinese people have deep-rooted feudal thoughts that "the three most unfilial ones are not having offspring." If the first child is a daughter, it will be the beginning of a loss of peace for many families. As a result, many women have "obtained" the title of "extreme mistress". They suffer severe discrimination from both parents and even the older generation. If it is allowed to have a second child, there will undoubtedly be more hope for the family. Even if the second child is still a daughter, it will be more harmonious than many families who only have one child.

　　2. Having a second child can promote social development

　　More and more of the only children born in the 1980s and 1990s are unwilling to work or participate in social development. They grew up in the warm embrace of grandparents and parents, and their ability to adapt to society has generally declined, and their sense of responsibility and achievement is even more indifferent. If you have a second child, this kind of self-centered "devil" will be greatly reduced, which will have a positive effect on social production.

　　3. Giving birth to a second child can help the child grow up more healthily

　　The author has visited only-child families many times. These children are quite spoiled and domineering. They have been living in an environment where food is always available, and parents' doting on their children has reached an extreme level. These children have had no competitors since they were young and have no correct concept of right and wrong, so they easily go to extremes. If you have a second child, it will allow the two children to have more fun in life and creativity. They will grow up together, which is conducive to the healthy development of the child.

　　4. Giving birth to a second child allows humans to accept many challenges

　　Although only children grew up with more care from relatives, it often turned into doting over time. Although their social connections expanded, their ability to bear it was greatly reduced. They also received more protection from their grandparents in receiving education. They can be said to be the generation with the least adaptability. Once something unexpected happens, they tend to be emotionally preoccupied. Just look at the many insults on the Internet to see how poor their ability to bear is. If he has a brother or sister, his sense of responsibility and ability to challenge will be cultivated from an early age, so that he can understand the abilities that a strong person must have from an early age.

　　5. Giving birth to a second child can help you better learn your outlook on life and values.

　　Sharing, tolerance, and dedication are the noble qualities of many people. The reason why people are noble is because human beings have the friendliness of sharing, the love of tolerance, and the spirit of dedication. These are the main spiritual pillars of humankind's longevity. However, these noble qualities are changing with the elderly With the increase, it becomes more and more necessary to cultivate. Only children go their own way, and the idea of ​​one person being too big is very serious, and their arrogant values ​​are even more worrying. If you give birth to a second child, you can maintain a good balance and prevent the child's temperament from becoming abnormal due to the doting like the apple of your eye.

　　In fact, it was not that big for people to raise ten or eight children in the past, but now we say that we can't even raise two. I don't believe it, it just depends on how you raise them. I think it is really illogical for a couple to have only one child. The car also has a spare tire, so why can they only have one child? What if something happens to the child and the couple gets old? Although it is not recommended to raise children to protect against old age, how much protection can the government give us? Not long ago, my father's friends were a pair of elderly people over fifty years old. After graduating from college, their sons went to the United States to continue their studies. They finally graduated, but died suddenly on the day of graduation. A pair of old people experienced great joy and great sorrow in their lives in one day. Now, they have nothing left and can only spend the rest of their lives in pain. If, if they had a child, I don’t think they would be as impatient and painful as they are now. That feeling is so terrifying!

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