Newlyweds beware of harm to their sexual lives

　　“A night of lingering in the bridal chamber can originally bring "sexual happiness" to the newlyweds, but if it is too passionate and reckless, it may also hurt each other, causing extreme joy to lead to sorrow. Recently, "Taiwan Today" news network ”We have sorted out the five major "sports injuries" caused by sex, including head collisions during sex.； The two parties hugged each other too tightly and put pressure on their necks, causing difficulty in breathing. ； Kneeling for long periods of time can cause knee injuries ； Cramps in legs and feet ； male The rapidly erect penis was caught in the chain.

Peking Union Medical College Hospital Li Hongjun, chief physician of the Department of Urology, said that in sexual life, the above-mentioned injuries are likely to occur and must be prevented. But most of the above-mentioned injuries are just flesh injuries. What needs to be noted are two more serious injuries, which are most likely to occur in newlyweds.

The first type of "serious injury" is caused by the sexual life of both parties being too intense, but the movements of each other are not stretchy and soft enough, resulting in damage to the genitals. like female Injury to labia majora and vagina； Male foreskin is damaged, incarcerated, and bleeding. What's more, men's penises were broken due to violent collisions. “The chance of penile breakage is very small. ”Li Hongjun told the "Life Times" reporter that if one party suffers such serious injuries on their wedding night, in addition to experiencing physical pain, they will also inevitably have a fear of sex, which may lead to disharmony in the couple's sexual life in the future.

The second type of "serious injury" occurs at the psychological level. If the couple does not cooperate tacitly enough in their first sexual life, it may lead to sexual failure and undermine each other's confidence in a happy sexual life. This will also reduce the quality of sex life in the future, and even "fail repeatedly."

Li Hongjun pointed out that the five "minor injuries" can only affect the patient temporarily, so just take a rest. However, two kinds of "serious injuries" may affect the whole life, and they need to be handled with caution.

For minor injuries, the response is relatively simple. If your head hits you, apply ice ； If the neck is put under pressure and causes fainting, help the person to a ventilated place and ensure deep breathing or perform artificial respiration. ； Pay attention to changing positions during sex to avoid knee injuries ； If foot cramps occur, you should bend your toes upward in the opposite direction to muscle contraction to relieve it.

Regarding the two serious injuries, Li Hongjun said that couples should know more about each other's bodies before sex, have sufficient "foreplay" to stimulate each other, and be considerate enough to avoid being too rough. In terms of mentality, you should keep in mind that "there is a long way to go". As long as the first sexual intercourse is successful and experienced, the quality of sexual intercourse can be gradually improved in the future. Otherwise, if your expectations are too high, and the more anxious you are, the more likely you are to hurt others and yourself.