Don’t let fatigue take away your “libido””

　　Gay men travel irregularly for a long time, turning the couple into a "migratory couple", which will greatly affect the wife's sexual expectations. It is said that "a break is better than a new marriage", but a survey shows that when the husband often travels for business and the business trip time is irregular, the wife's sexual expectations will rise and fall. If she is not satisfied regularly, she will show insomnia, restlessness, irritability or depression. In severe cases, she will have no passion for sex, which will affect the relationship between the couple. Low interest in sex is also common among couples who live in separate places, or who work inconsistent hours or don't get enough sleep together.

　　exist clinical In the outpatient clinic, many male Patients all feel that they do not feel any obvious discomfort, but they have a lingering feeling of fatigue during sexual intercourse. Among this group of people, the majority are “weekend couples” who are busy with work. A man once told him: “I am busy with work every day, and my mind is filled with meeting clients and meetings, and my heart is so blocked that I naturally have no other thoughts. ”

　　For "migratory bird couples", the best solution is to try to cultivate a fixed sexual cycle, and when you find that the other party has sexual requirements, try to satisfy the other party as much as possible； When the other person becomes angry because their sexual expectations are not met, do not give tit-for-tat to avoid misunderstandings and hurting the relationship between the couple. You can choose entertainment methods that make both of you happy physically and mentally. First, you can relieve your spouse's frustration before having sex.

　　For "weekend couples" who are busy at work, first of all, they cannot use work as an excuse to avoid sex. They must know that sex is the best way to relax. Secondly, we must realize that sex is not limited to sexual contact. Adding some "packaging" in life, creating a romantic atmosphere such as candlelight and flowers, and talking with your lover can also meet the needs of the other person.